STOP COMPARING YOURSELF.

Build your self esteem, Know who you are and accept  ‘You’ as ‘You’  and work on your weak areas.
We all have weaknesses but don’t let it overwhelm you.
Comparing yourself makes you lose sight of who you really are.
It makes it hard for you to enjoy who you are and be fulfilled as a girl, lady, woman.
Don’t allow anyone take the wheel off your hand.
Don’t allow other people take the driver seat of your life
Don’t allow their status, position or achievements make you feel less of yourself.
You can do better.
Just build on what you already have in your hand, and source out if you have to, think yourself to be special and unique in your own way.
Resist those little voices in your head.
Tell yourself  “Yes I can do” and the Lord will crown your efforts with glory and make your “Wow” factor visible again.

Cheers
Be happy

ยฉ Peace Onybuchi

A Can Do Attitude.

Keep moving, keep pushing. “The road to success is always under construction” – Steve Harvey.

When you set your goals always remember that something or things will happen along the line that will cause redirection. There’s not always a straight line to it. Don’t stop, Develop a “can do” attitude, that drives your actions, be firm and resilient and you will get there, it’s a matter of time well utilized.

Cheers ๐Ÿ’ช ๐ŸŒŸ

Time to shed your cocoon.

How bad can it be ? There’s so much going on around and within you, the good, the bad and the ugly. But you choose to focus on the outward; always put on a smiling face with beautiful make-up, but right inside you are bleeding.

We all have it. We all have ashes somehow. It could be the past, which has broken, crushed and left you wounded for years within. It could be the present, and every fresh morning is like a fresh hell.

Hey! heads up, there is hope and redemption. God has promised in (Isaiah 61:3)To appoint into those that mourn in zion, to give them beauty for ashes, oil of Joy for moruning, garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness; that they may be called trees of righteousness, the planting of the Lord, that He might be glorified”

Time for your change is now. It’s time to give it all up, and shed those weights. It’s time to position yourself for this change, just like a caterpillar๐Ÿ›๐Ÿ› aligning itself in the right position because he is aware that change is around the corner and it is certain. If this is not done the full potential will never be reached. You must shed the cocoon, the veil, that has limited you. Give up your ashes, ashes of isolation, ashes of shame, ashes of rejection, anger, inferiority complex, ashes of not-good-enough etc.

This is transition time. It’s time to receive beauty for your ashes. You are the Apple of God’s eyes, bought with a precious price and you are royal, don’t dwell or withhold your ashes, Drop it. Even the caterpillar is eager to come out of the cocoon, immediately it’s time, it breaks forth and begin to fly with its new and well decorated wings. This is how it should be for you now. Be eager to come out, the world is waiting for you to fly and soar, and keep soaring. When the butterfly begins comes out of its cocoon it never goes back to it, it flys until the day it does.

Give it up, dust off the ashes and allow God to decorate you again with beautiful wings to fly. Come off it now, stand tall, be the pineapple lady, wear your ๐Ÿ‘‘ crown, you can be sweet again inside and out, allow your inside beauty speak . You are beautifully designed. Soar high and reach for the sky.๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•

Pedal on, Don’t give up.

Dreams motivate and keeps me going. It fires me up and makes me get on my feet and start scribbling things down for a new book. When you have dreams it fires you up to face your challenges, not allowing them to stop you, because you want your dreams to come alive, Zech.4:6-9. Keepย  going until the final whistle is blown as in a football field. Never let yesterday’s dissappointments overshadow todays dreams, because the future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams.

Situations around will make you see your mission as ‘impossible’ but be courageous, and don’t give-in to them. With God all things are possible. Many have left and abandoned their marriages, children, jobs/carrer, passion, even ministerial callings because of challenges.ย 

Refuse to quit, refuse to end before its time. When others are saying thereis a casting down, say to yourself there is a lifting for me-Job 22:28-29. Make these challenges the stepping stones to your goal and achievement, use it as a platform to your next move. They are part of the subjects you have to take in lifes training especially as a child of God. You can’t take some and leave some subjects -Job 2:10b. It’s all in the package. Challenges makes life interesting; but overcoming it makes life meaningful. Great works are performed not by strenght but by perseverence. Do not stop until its all over, quitting should not be an option at all. It’s ok to take a good break if you have to refuel. Hold on and move forward, looking unto Jesus Christ the Author and finisher of our Faith. If you let God be your referee, you will never be ashamed, rather than be a quitter you will be a winner, and rather than be a victim you will beย  a victor. Don’t stop when God (your referee) has not blown the whistle .

See you at the finishing line

Cheers ๐Ÿšตโœ…

Go Get it.

There’s something going on in your mind for some time now. It has been brewing so strong like a tsunami inside of you. Don’t wave it off. You will agree with me that anytime it starts, the feeling is like you can actually touch it right ?

I want to encourage your heart, be charged, be determined,, let the fire burn, don’t let it turn into ashes, it’s time, Go Get it.

Like William James will say, “there is nothing so fatiguing as the external hanging of an uncompleted task” . The task has already started in your Spirit man/ mind, you have to complete it by giving it a face, give it a name, let the sun shine on it. Don’t wait till you feel like doing anything before you do it. Start now because it is connected to your valued success in life.

You may not have a perfect time to dig. Remember, God could not wait for Peter to finish preaching before baptizing Cornelius with Holy Ghost because it was time. You don’t need to have everything before you start. Zig Ziglar once said “You don’t have to be great to start, you have to start to be great”. So I implore you to Go Get it. See you on the other side Cheers.๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜‰

Strengthen the core.

Hello beautiful, don’t loose the sight of who you are. Like pineapple๐Ÿ, get a strong confident posture.
When the core is strong, you will carry yourself with confidence, being in control of your life not feeling defeated/ inferior or lost.
Your dress sense will change and you will feel great within because the core is strong๐Ÿ’ช.
Your Core is within you. Find it. How strong is yours right now ? It will be nice to hear from you.๐Ÿ’–

Self-love๐Ÿ’–๐Ÿ’›

When you discover yourself you will understand how beautiful you are.
Beauty is you discovering who you really are from the inside.
Confidently be you, and do you, then spread your wings to soar in the storm, because when you discover you, you can soar against the storm confidently.

Tell yourself, ‘I am beautiful, Confident, strong and loved’.
God loves you more.

Cheers